Sorry about your health and doctor issues. Bleaaaah. I hope they get you figured out soon.
I have a close friend who has been through so much this past year b/c of bowel issues. They thought it was Crohns, but it wasn't. They were going to do a bowel resection, but decided not to. Now her new gut Dr. said she has a grapefruit-sized tumor on her kidney causing problems. Sheesh! So I can appreciate a little of what you've been through.
I'm sorry your DH isn't more helpful. Let's pray he catches the Christmas spirit and helps you out instead of going to the nearest car dealership.