You know what I think of Kelly . . . you must have had a wonderful relationship with your hubby to feel that having someone full-time would be a desirable thing.

I envy what you've had though . . .

I have not found it hard to meet good men, even with having this disease and being mostly anti-social . . . but I guess I am just not the marrying kind. I can't imagine ever being that comfortable to make a lifelong commitment, probably because I made that "mistake" before.

Have you thought about interacting on a "social" site on the internet. I met many men on various sites, including my current b/f (from Georgia). I met him on BOLT, which was a music exchange site. We talked for many months until he finally came here to meet me a few years ago . . . and he'd marry me tomorrow if I would give in.

I've also met some really nice men with MS on the various forums . . .

Of course you have to be very careful about checking people out, and getting to know them well before you agree to meet . . . but I know a lot of people this has worked out for.

Cherie