Yep......I'm thinking about "cutting them off". I know it sounds drastic, but I am sick and tired of being made out to be lazy, etc and I just don't have the time for negativity in my life anymore.
I think that I should focus on members of my family that are actually supportive and just ignore the others!!!!!
I know everyone grieves in their own way, but I am waaaaaaaaay tired of feeling guilty b/c I cannot do the things I use to do!!!!!
THanks for the advice!
Erin
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Originally Posted by MissyGirl
Tell them to go to....(you fill in the blank.)
Honestly, if they have nerve enough to say stuff like that, your family has major "boundary" issues. I suggest you read up on boundaries (there's actually a book by that name) and go from there.
Take care,
Missy
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