I went to an office party, sat in my wheelchair and had two choices. Sit and look sraight ahead, and see every one's butt, point out to DH the bad ones or ones with panty line or look up at those talking and end up with a horrible neck ache and say "I want to go home". I opted for that. Don't think others understood.
Even under "normal" conditions my neck hurts. JS, let me know Memory foam pi;los info, I'v e thought about it in past.