On the topic..well I lost my sister just this past October..and no of course BIL isnt dating yet....

but I have to say one thing, MY thought though is, truely I would hope he would find companionship in dating...after a year....I understand mourning, I understand maybe not wanting to remarry...cause I dont think I would ever remarry....

but if he were to start dating another in a year, I wouldnt feel wrong about it....I would be happy that he has some companionship..and not losing out on finding another person in the world to love... it doesnt mean he would be missing my sister less...or that he isnt honoring her.

I would hope...although hubby says he would never remarry if I go first, but I sure hope, after a year he would certainly have some dating going on... friendships or more... just another way to look at it..

I wouldnt want him to be mourning me so much that he doesnt let go enough to go ahead and make some close friendships and more. That is my perspective...


anyhow, snow snow snow is the word of the day here!!! off and on yesterday and today... and my body is a hurting...numb, zappy, spasms, and all that crap...trying to be positive thru the ailments..to maybe make smoe more cookies. 3 year old is hoping to bake more hehe..

hugss all, sarah