It is weird.....and while it was nice to get out of the house and have a little companionship....I have to admit it was uncomfortable for me at first and I don't think I ever really got over the feeling of "this is strange". I think after being with someone for so long.....it's like trying to wear your shoes on the wrong feet....just feels strange. Now, that's not everyone...just me. But, I'm happy with the way things are for me now. A little extra security would be nice....but things are OK now and I'm leaving well enough alone!