I'll have "or something" dear lady. And no, life isn't fair...we are just practicing. We could request the good Dr. start a blood clot forum...just what he wants, another forum.

I'm rereading a good book "A Reason to Live" by Melody Beattie
and I really like what she says....

"I don't believe we were intended to slug around on the ground, carrying a heavy burden on our backs.

We're meant to claim our wings and fly. Sometimes, to get our wings strong enough to fly, we have to beat on the edges of our cocoon for a while. It hurts, too but the pain isn't the purpose; it's just sometimes part of the path."

Let's you and I just keep beating!