you are right Cherie when i first started at the other forum I was appalled by what some of the MS'ers went through with their spouse, ask deb I use to complain how can anyone be so insensitive, guess its easier to say you are lazy instead of facing reality and trying to be compassionate, like I said this behavior appalls me,

Wizzie bethy cathy dont be so hard on your self you got V time coming enjoy relax and catch up on rest,