I'm in a chair, can toilet myself, on Vesicare (4 years now?), had some accidents before I went from walker (S.....l.....o.....w) to much faster chair, although I'm PPMS, seems a little better now (1 year), see a urologist, self-cathering not end of world - Easy I hear-and I do go out, but drive home I always wish we were closer and going faster. MSers always seem to go either way, too much or too little. Everyone so different. See a Urologist!!