welcome to neurotalk ....
sorry to hear your aneurysm and the up coming surgery .... i hope to see you posting in some of the different forums here .... i am sure you will find friendship and support here ... if you need any help just ask ... i will help you if i can
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum7.html (aneurysm forum) this might be a good place to start .... feel free to check out other forums too... again ...