Thanks, I am taking care of me DM and I did make one of the res-o-lution things. I promised myself that I would not worry so much about everyone else and to focus on the bigger picture. I tell so many that if you can't change it why worry? I need to follow my own advice.

that you all come to a solid agreement. I'll also pray for your BIL to come around. I fear my BIL will be the same with his mom. Ugh, family drama. Hate it.