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Originally Posted by bizi
Whether giving or receiving therapy, this book reminds us that we are all humans -- nobody has all the answers.
1. This is it!
2. There are no hidden meanings
3. You can't get there from here, and besides, there's no place else to go
4. We are all already dying and we'll be dead for a long time.
5. Nothing lasts!
6. There is no way of getting all you want.
7. You can't have anything unless you let go of it.
8. You only get to keep what you give away.
9. There is no particular reason why you lost out on some things.
10. The world is not necessarily just. Being good often does not pay off and there is no compensation for misfortune.
11. You have the responsibility to do your best nonetheless.
12. It is a random universe to which we bring meaning.
13. You don't really control anything.
14. You can't make someone love you.
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Beth,
These things you list are depressing in a way. But I guess that is the point. They are also very
freeing.
You can let go after reading them and see that there is no point in hanging on to old useless emotions.
M