I was recently told that I suffer from a victim mentality. I am self examining right now because my life is certainly not going the way I want. I was laid off from my second job in a year due to my poor performance and attendance due to MS. I am in foreclosure. I am unemployed and seeking employment in my home. I recently lost a three year boyfriend who cannot deal with my illness and I just feel like ****. Help!! I have always thought I was a positive person, but now I am not sure.