Your'e right, it is an awful situation. Being an ''in-law'' kind of makes me an outsider. (not w/my DH, but w/the sibs) When my own Mother was very ill, my DH was right beside me every step of the way and we never settled for anything but the very best care we could get for her. Those sibs are going to be sorry for the way they have treated her someday, if they even GET it.

She is having a mammogram tomorrow to check what they think is a mass on her breast, so this poor woman has been through the mill. All she wants to do is go to her own home and that will never happen. AYUP, when it rains, it pours.