Hello fawn, dont worry about it, it takes time this site is pretty large, and filled with so many kind and helpful folks. Like you said am sorry for the reason but glad you found us.
here is a link to the TN forum
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum26.html
and here is a link to the MS forum it also has an intro thread at the top and we have a fun sub forum called the stumble inn
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum17.html
we also have a social forum for all of us to chit chat
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum35.html
like i said dont fret about getting use to this place it took me some time at first, if you have any problems or questions do not hesitate in asking, again welcome to NT