((((((((( wishfulthinking )))))))))

I'm so sorry that your T (therapist) is showing such ambivalence to you, her client. I feel that inappropriate.

If she felt you were not maintaining proper boundaries, as well as several other reasonings, she should have stopped the sessions. The message she is sending is not good by saying one thing, then doing another. She's speaking of poor boundaries on your part and not maintaining them.

I'm sorry, but I would discontinue seeing her and try to see someone else as soon as possible. When you meet with the new T, please tell them day one the confusion and upset her actions caused so that you and the new T can work through them.

I'm sorry you've gone through this. I feel her words combined with her actions harmful potentially.

T's are human as well and will show it from time to time. However, it should be the exception and not the rule.

I wish you so more than well. Please keep us informed.

KD