((((((((((((((( Teri ))))))))))))))))))

I so understand those fears and thoughts. When my daughter was in the hospital in ICU, I maintained. When she came home and the "what if's" got ahold of me, I wasn't maintaining at all. I've done similar too many times in my life...

In those times, I think it's really important to focus on WHAT IS. Goodness, that's a chunk to chew on its own! What if's can really take us to a bad place where focus can become skewed; where panic and depression can consume.

How can we help you to move away from the "what if's"? Do you need to verify some things? Do you need to have a discussion regarding this concern? I hope that you're able to disspell your concern. However, I've found that most of the time even when validating something not so good, it can be better than the "what if's" place I've taken myself to.

We're here.

KD