I have a close friend who laughs sometimes when I stumble, or flap my arms to keep my balance, or struggle to get my words to come out right.

The first time that happened I was mortally offended, but I realize now that it's more of a nervous reaction for her. Plus, I deal with my issues with humor, and some people just don't get it that it's okay for ME to poke fun at me, but not for YOU to poke fun at me.

Most of us here don't know enough about the relationship between you and your family members to offer much advice, other than in general.

I am most concerned, friend, that you fall a lot. Is there anything you can do beyond what you're already doing to try to reduce the number of falls? Do you use devices such as canes, walkers, or whatever?