Thank you Shirley,

I have very much been thinking about this. I am going to try and do it all again at Christmas but then I am going to tell them I can't do it anymore alone. So, I am going to suggest a potluck just like you said. I think it would help me so much as it took a week for me to recover after Thanksgiving. Still, I am struggling.
So, thank you for the suggestion and I do plan on landing it on them at Christmas!!
Take care,
Linda