((((Kamie))))
I know exactly how you are feeling as I withdrew my son from a "church" school once when they punished him for having Tourette Tics
and I personally witnessed a teacher tip his desk out over his head because he didnt have it tidy enough

(the teacher did not see me at the door to pick him up for a med appt)
What would Jesus do? He would cradle Zoe in His arms and tell her how precious and perfect she is to Him.
Discrimination is never acceptable, but when it comes from those who call themselves His followers, it is totally reprehensible.
Plus, if they advertise that they are equipped for special needs, they have violated their contract with you
You are absolutely right to take this as far as you can!
(((((Kamie)))) & (((((((Zoe)))))))