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Join Date: May 2007
Location: Around
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Legendary
Join Date: May 2007
Location: Around
Posts: 10,109
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Thanks for the advice Judy, dear BUT, the proverbial doo doo hit the fan yest. The BIL and SIS took MIL to the NH and she pitched a BIG ONE, so the NH told them to leave for a bit while they calm her down. Well, I don't know what happened, but they didn't leave her there. She went WILD!!!!
SIL asked my DH when HE was going to take his turn at keeping her and he said NO WAY. He is working 6 days a wk and one mistake could cost him his job. (nuclear power) She got mad and hung up. ~~~ Guess I'm probably the dirty shirt since I don't work, but DH said there is no way in He77 that I can take that on.
The Dr's, DH and I all tried to tell the Sib's that a transfer directly to the NH from the hosp makes the transition easier, but NOOOOOO~ Now, they are seeing that MIL is just too much work to try and keep at home. It all comes down to $$$$$. Money that is hers, not theirs. *pulling hair out*
Besides, DS has an appt w/the surgeon again on Mon to decide the next step, as he is still in pain. I feel like I'm living in a Soap Opera!!! Poor DH was so quiet last night; I know he feels really bad, but he is realistic, as his Mom is up all night, wandering around, turning things on, etc. I'm at the end of my rope right now w/the BS going on.
So, we are back at square one! I know everyone has thier own set of problems, but I am really getting worn down w/all this. I was supposed to be in NC right now, but have to get DS and MIL situations resolved first. Does Calgon really take all your problems away???
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