((((DM)))))

Do you know if they were just looking or were they ready to actually leave her there?

If they were just checking out the place, they NEVER should have taken her.

The transition can be scary, but there are many ways it can be done to ease that. Her room can be already set up with familiar things. Even if they only allow framed pictures, items that she would set on her dresser, an afgan. Homey things for her.

I am so glad your DH is sticking to his guns.