i admire all of you for what you all have to contend with each and every day ... would my resolve be as strong as ya'lls is ... i don't know ... would i be as optimistic ... again i just don't know ... what i do know is that each day i come here and read what you have posted and am always amazed ... you all are friendly, supportive, have a great sense of humor, and haven't forgotten how to laugh ... you all hug each other and lift each other up when down ... to me you all are winners