Hi Roberta and Welcome to Neuro Talk. It sounds like you have an awful lot on your plate.
Here is the link to our Caregivers Forum..
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum56.html
and if you'll look around you'll find several other forums that might be of interest to you.
I also suggest you post in the New Members Forum...it's nice to introduce yourself there.
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum88.html