Hi Roberta,
Nice to meet you and welcome
By the sounds of it you have got a lot on your plate with your parents, not to mention your recovery from the coiling, you did not mention if you had a rupture or not? If you did the recovery is slower and lots of rest is needed. Is there another family member that can take over helping your parents, you really need to focus on yourself right now, you have been through alot and need to rest and recover. I had leg pain also after my surgery and I was told it was due to muscle weakness from laying in bed for almost a month after the rupture and surgery, with mild exercise you should feel better or ask the doc to order some Physical Therapy for you. I wish you all the best in your recovery and remember to focus on yourself to get the best recovery
Ruthie