Hello and Welcome,
I sure hope you can find a good dr that can really be of help to you soon.
Did you find our useful sticky thread above yet?
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/thread304.html

You might have found most of the sites in your searches already, but it's nice to have them in one place, to refresh the memory .
I get brain fog too sometimes.
I have thoracic outlet syndrome, but some of the symptoms overlap with FM.
the trigger points, muscle pain, spasms etc - quite a few w/TOS end up with FM as a co dx eventually.