Only you can make this decision. Before I was DXed, raised twins, 10 at my DX,16 when I went into chair. They're old enough to help me a little, When they were little, even then I was thankful that they napped at same time (age difference means one will, other won't or will fight it). I know as a PP, will never remit, am glad it was done 17 years ago when I could do it like I did (did not work either, we ""choose" to go deeply into debt). Even having no MS symptoms then, after a night of twin feedings and diaper changes, I was so tired I'd cry. Motherhood is tough, but I would do it again like that, now, no.