LOL thank you everyone...
our little J was here for a month...he left on Monday...and left a hole in both the moss and I...
I have really bonded with him and I can see his little hand prints and foot prints everywhere...literally and metamorphically...
there is a tiny dirty hand print of his on one of our walls...I have NOT cleaned it....
it is both bitter sweet for me....I see it I want to clean it...I see it I don't want to clean it because it makes me smile....
*sigh...
we now have our grand daughter with us and I'd better get off the puter, she's waiting for papo to take her out to play....