Bizi,

Monkey butting in here...

But have your friend rent the movie Fireproof with Kirk Cameron.

I just posted about it on the Social forum's sub forum...book and movies.

Hubby and I watched it last night. What a moving movie. A real eye opener. Over and over we both would look at eachother and nod. Yep, we were guilty of the same things and now could see it throughthe others eyes.

Here is a link more about the resources and what helped the couple in the movie.

http://www.fireproofmymarriage.com/