Quote:
Originally Posted by Mari
I'm very sorry that we (the board) let you down when you were in need. We are human.
You could give us another try if / when you are up to it.
Also, keep in mind that some people post when they are hurting. Others hide when they are hurting. Some mostly post when they are doing well. There are many posting styles / approaches. The board can accommodate everyone I hope.
Mari
|
Mari said it well.
We are all human and can and do reply when able. There is no time line on this. No rules. There are times that a person isn't sure what to reply, so not, can be the best thing. Computer and time constraints.
Barbara, your last sentence in your first post was this:
Writing this is making me feel better. The pity party is over and I am going to toughen up on society. I will find my way some day. I've still got that hope to cope it seems.
It gives the impression that you needed to post, to vent and you felt better.
Posts that end this way don't always get many replies.
One thing that does help in situations where you aren't sure how to reply, is to hit the Thank You button, to let the person know you read the post. It offers support. The person knows they were heard.
The BP forum is very supportive forum. It is full of a wealth of information.
In the end Barbara, it is your choice to continue to post here or not. From the replies, your friends want you to remain. We all do.
We wish you well, no matter what you decide.
Curious