Thread: Where is BJ?
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Old 02-10-2009, 04:41 AM
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Help If anyone...

If anyone has other means of contacting BJ... such as email, IM or phone... perhaps they would be willing to try? (that is if they have not already done so.) I am not asking for disclosure of this information... just wondering if perhaps several ppl might have contact with her and each might assume someone else has tried.... that sort of thing.

if BJ had only physical ailments - indeed her injuries are putting her in severe pain and limit her activity a great deal for now - i would not be as concerned.

But this is not the only thing. I recall seeing posts about the Beast... ... she is very vulnerable to depression, and pain and depression exacerbate one another.

So at this point after this much time without a peep out of her, I am quite concerned.

**Admins/Mods** (or anyone who knows)

Wellbeing Check???

does this forum have what is called a "wellbeing check" procedure in place, perchance? other places do... however, it is fairly invasive and not used unless there is serious concern for the welfare/life of the person in question. it involves the confidential tracing of the person's identity and subsequent request to the authorities that they make a house call, to verify the safety of the person.

i am starting to have enough concern with her absence, though possibly explained by the physical issues, as to at least wonder if NT has such a procedure available.

meanwhile if anyone has private contact with her... do, please, use it and perhaps ask for permission to post something on her behalf or simply that she is ... "ok" ... for lack of a better word.

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