The big thing Tom is that she has no job ( hasn't for a long time), no income, is on food stamps, 3 of her older kids ( all are 7 yrs old and younger) have disabilites ( are they getting the care and education they need) and as of right now, it looks like the government...us tax payers will be footing the bill.
6 kids + 8 babies...in a small 3 bedroom home.
On my mothers side of the family, there were some big families. Big difference is they supported their own. Farmed or worked. They didn't expect or every take government money to have kids or raise them.

Sending prayers for your mom and her roomate.