Thank you Moss and Koala
I guess I am seeing it would be just as hard in 12 months. Seeing your posts, as nurses was like a light bulb went off in my head. THIS IS why nursing homes are out there. I imagine no one ever "wants" to place their loved one! I know he would be safer, no more worries about fires and such.. and I know they would be able to handle his hygiene issues better than I can. If I knew he would have nurses like you two and goofy, it would be an easier choice
I keep thinking, it isn't now or never. Another bed will open up eventually. But, I can't ignore the timing either... I have always been a believer in everything happens for a reason. Lots to think on! His son will be calling this evening, and I will let you all know.. and thanks again