(((Nikki)))
As hard as it is for you, I'm happy for your decision because...we also want you to be able to take care of yourself. You have so much to deal with as it is.
And 20 minutes away...that's wonderful. You can visit him often, and then go home and rest. And those bed sores...yes, they are awful and the good people at his new home will help him with those kinds of things.
Much love.