Thank you everyone.

I have actually taken the matress and put the head at an incline.. unfortunately baby boy is so used to sleeping with me that he won't allow me to sleep anywheres else and get a decent sleep.(my fault, i spoil him)

But i stuck some books strategically under the matress near the top so i am reclining.

And i definetly will get to the doc tomorrow, because something funky is going on.

thank you for the welcome as well!

I had a good long chat with a friend with apnea, and she calmed me down quite a bit, still can't sleep yet but i feel less emergent than I did. So tonight is okay for now.