Hi Melody,

It is *so hard*, I feel for you! However, I'd definitely recommend that you stay as much out of your friend's divorce as possible. You can be there for her emotionally. Support her. Give her information on where to go, and ask if she'd like you to come with for personal support. But don't tell her what her husband said. He may be talking baloney, just to scare (and/or impress) everyone.

I can understand your fear that it may come back to bite you. Maybe it will, but I highly doubt it. Passing on that kind of info will only hurt her. And then, she may do something to hurt him & the situation worsens still. It is not worth the risk! Especially in this day and age, if you know what I mean.

Best wishes to your friend, and good luck!
Shez