Dear Lara... you, too, are tall and beautiful. I can say that with conviction and truth because I know it to be a fact. I imagine that you may look very much like your mother.

Hold on strong to the steps you have taken to take care of yourself and your children.

I will never forgot the strength I saw in you when I first met you... both here and in real life. Although you may not feel this - I have admired and gathered personal strength from knowing you. I will always treasure our bond.

I think that perhaps these family members are curious. You are a part of something they lost - your mother. That being said... they were not there for you when you needed them most. Perhaps they are young (your age) and had no responsiblity at the time but if they are your mothers age then I say shame on them... where were they when you needed them most? Perhaps they are wanting to explain and ask your forgiveness.... you may feel this curiousity and wonder, too...

I trust that you will make the decision that is right for you.

I am so pleased to hear that your son and daughter are doing well as can be at this time.

My love to you and yours xooxxoo from Addy