Hi Jennifer! It is nice to "meet" you. I am Heather, mom to a daughter with hydro since before she was born. You have found an excellent, and yes FREE!, website for info, friendship, and fun. We come from all over the planet, all different situations, and all abilities. But, we all have more experience than we want, so feel free to ask questions, tell us happies, cry, scream, whatever... we're here. Welcome to the "family" and I hope we all get to know you better!