I understand completely. Once upon a time .... I could do four loads of laundry, shop for food, cook the food, do some cleaning ... without breaking a sweat.
Like I said, once upon a time.
Now ... I gather laundry and get the washer started. Forget about it until the next day...
that day comes, put the laundry in the dryer and then it's forgotten...
every day.
I shop for food in a local grocery store (5 minutes away). If I were to travel a half hour I would have a much larger selection ... but the travel agrevates my fatigue.
While I've accepted the situation (dx'd in 2000) , I just find it a bit frustrating to not get as much things completed as I once did.
When I feel the frustration build, I repeat my motto: Do what you can do, when you can do it (and remember it).
I hope you'll find your way with it all.
Cheers!
Niko