You're not whining at all, Di. Please don't feel that way.

It sounds as if there's been an awful lot going on that any or many of us wouldn't have known about. I'm so truly sorry that it's been so difficult in so many ways in your life. You hold on there. I know it's hard but you just hold on there for dear life and keep talking.

It might help you heal some from what's happened in the past and might be a lifeline for the present time. You're cared about very much here and as I said once before, you may not even know some of us very well, but we (I) know you and sadly grief brought us to say it, but believe me you were cared about long before then.

Have you all been involved with any family therapy or counselling at all? There has been so much happen and perhaps that might help some. It sounds as if many of you need some help to deal with all the sorrow.

Di, you hold on there please. Keep talking and do know that people from far away are thinking of you.

Love,
Lara