Well I just could not hit the thanks button on that post. (((Nikki)))
Mr.Alffe was so sure that someone had killed our Michael because "he wouldn't do something like that." And my neighbors husband said the exact same thing about their son. The police were kind enough to "investigate"...and it was a kindness because there was no doubt about it.

The woman moderator at that support group I attended, did have her son murdered and she said some of the same stigma suicide survivors feel, accompanies a murder...people "wonder" about who your family member associates with....etc. ~sigh