Blown IVs HURT!
I am sorry your nurse is being such a ....PIA. I hope you express to her how unfair it is that she has not only kept you waiting, but her lack of attention has caused you to seek other remedies, and that is frustrating. If she isnt able/willing to take better care of you, please pass you along to anther nurse.
I want to hug you!
I have been in your shoes, and it SUCKS!