Melody...21 views has nothing to do with "people". Search engines send out bots and spiders, they view posts and gather the info so it can be found in searches. Like Google and Yahoo. Also if a non member reads, they can't reply.

I wish I had advice. I'm a firm beleiver in tough love and not having toxic people in my life. It's tough, can be seen as being cold or mean. I just don't want those type of people around me or my family...even if they are blood.

I wouldn't give a penny. My brother was enabled by my parents. I beleive it contributed to his death.

I think your gut and Mother Heart are telling you what you need to hear.