I wish I could help too. I think only a person who has had experience with things like this, can share their experience and the wisdom they acquired.
When people don't have experience with this, offering help is just very difficult and iffy.
Is there a Gambler's Anon group near you? Have you tried talking to other gamblers who have been there done that?
I am so sorry you have to go thru this. It sounds agonizing.
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