This kind of reminds me of the fighting with my ex. He feels it's unfair her has to drive to my house to pick up and bring DD back. (even though the court order clearly states he is responsible for transportation to and from his visitation) I normally try to drop her off for him to save him the trip. Now that I cannot see/feel to drive, he gets an attitude. Then follows it with

"well, you don't look sick". I laughed and told him he doesn't look like an insensitive moron, but we all know better. Looks can be deceiving. It's true you really can't fix stupid.