I set my kids in front of the computer, and let them read stories of other sufferers, and this seems to help them not only understand what i am going through, but also let them learn that it is something that alot of people are just like me, and they have a better understanding, and i believe it help them see dad in a new light.

You can try whatever works for you, but I have found that the more they know, the better they are at dealing/understanding/copeing with what we are ALL going through.