Sorry about the bad news... I've been on Cobra... sucks big goose eggs.
Aren't you on SS, with Medicare?
There's SSI if you can qualify for that. Restrictive but some coverage. Sometimes you go in to apply and are told you don't qualify but later you find out there's exceptions to their rules, like medical necessity, medical expenses, meds.
You may qualify for other services like home health services. Aids who come to your home to clean, shop for you, take care of your personal needs. They can be a Godsend for people around here.
Can hubby qualify and apply for disability - pays more than early (age 62) retirement.
I had bilateral Botox injections (X3) into my scalenes (ins didn't pay) and my right eye developed a twitch (found out later that was a side effect with Botox to the scalene.) Mild and rarely bothersome. So even though it's your eye twitching it could be coming from somewhere else. We're wired up that way, you know.
While you're at it, try to get your annual gyno things too, dental, eye.
not a doc, but sounds like torticollis happening with your neck, the fixed pulling effect. A PT can stretch that out and show you home exercises to correct and prevent worsening.
Hang in there.