I know what you mean about beauty day. I decided since I have to use dilators for PN and take baths for the fhl tendinitis I have and for pT, I was going to make my garden tub a little haven I would want to go to.
I have a back scrubber, gel thing for over the eyes, lots of lavendar bubble bath, homemade scented soaps , and then my tub is surrounded by pillar candles. I take a bath a few days a week at night, turn out the lights, light the candles and put on some classical music. Feels good to relax, and it loosens my muscles before I have to do my PT exercises.
When I can go out on the weekend , I usually go to the Chanel counter or Bobbi Brown and have them do my whole face. That makes me feel better. I sit my little pudendal cushion down and then pick out colors I like.