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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Arkansas
Posts: 145
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Arkansas
Posts: 145
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vic,
I am so glad to read that you have a plan for your life. I honestly think you will be so much better off once you leave, and if your wife is honest with herself she will be better off as well. After 42 years of marriage it will be hard to be alone, but I guarantee that is the one thing she is afraid of is being alone. I have been in a similar situation and it took me a long time to finally leave a really bad situation, but after a few months I felt better than I had my entire life. I wasn't depressed any longer and life did have a meaning, and thank God I was a much happier, a much better person and mother for my children.
It will be hard, but you, of all people, I know will make it. I am sure you have a lot of friends there that will give you a place to stay, but if you need a place to just get away for awhile my door is always open and we'll get you here someway..LOL
Best wishes my friend, and as always you are in my daily thoughts and prayers.
Love ya,
janet
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