You have done everything you can dear friend. You are not responsible for the poor choices she has made and is continuing to make. Just wanting something isn't good enough...life isn't like that as you well know.

Shame on your counsin for dumping this on you and trying to guilt you into the impossible. Alice needs to grow up and accept the reality of her situation...it will be so very sad if she kills herself, for whatever reason...but hear me..It has nothing to do with you and what you have tried to do for her.